Tomorrow I will get to meet my ex’s new girlfriend. I have so many mixed feelings about this. But if there is one thing that is standing out, when it comes to my kids, I’m not bitchy or picky, I’m protective.
My ex doesn’t have a very good track record in the Lady’s Department. His last girlfriend I remember a conversation with him where he said, “Oh yeah she’s a crazy psycho b*tch.” And yet, this is who he chose to have around our children. After a domestic violent incident and squalor living conditions, I yanked my kids out of his grasp and halted everything.
I’m not afraid of meeting her and I’m not even nervous. I am the most important person in my children’s lives so I have no doubt that my rank with them is never moving. However, I will protect my babies from harm. I will let her know what I expect of her, what she can and can’t do, and to know her place. This is my territory, I am willing to share, but not willing to have my foundation ruined.
I will be nice and forth-right, pleasant while getting my point across. I will not allow him to the be the judge of character no matter how much he thinks she’s “like me”.
Let the games begin!
UPDATE: SHE SEEMS TO BE NORMAL. 25 YEARS OLD, NO KIDS AND IS WITH HIM. LIKE MOST THING’S IN MY LIFE, IF IT’S TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, IT PROBABLY IS. IF AND IT’S A BIG IF…IF SHE TURNS OUT TO BE A GOOD PERSON, HE WON’T BE ABLE TO KEEP HER LONG.